How to Set Your Kids Up for Financial Success

How to Set Your Kids Up for Financial Success

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During Month of the Military Child, we pause to recognize the sacrifices and highlight the resiliency of military children. As we celebrate their unique experiences, take a moment to consider how their exposure to big life events, like a PCS, impacts their understanding of financial well-being. The money lessons we teach our children while they’re young — both in what we say and what we do – can set them up for financial success as adults.

Age-appropriate lessons can begin as early as three years old by introducing coins and paper money with basic counting. You can use a piggy bank to start teaching a seven-year old about saving, but a discussion about compound interest is way too advanced for this age. I’ve found that teaching kids about money works best in real-life situations, like when you’re grocery shopping or paying bills.

Check out the age-appropriate money lessons and activities below that you can use to boost your child’s money smarts, whether they are three or 19. I’ve used some of them to teach my own daughters, but you know your child best, so adapt activities to their personal interests and abilities. Starting the conversations sooner than later will help them appreciate financial decisions and build a solid foundation from which to build.

Ages 3 to 5

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Introduce coins, paper money and basic counting.
  • Talk about your job and how a job helps you earn money to pay for what you need.
  • Introduce the difference between needs and wants to prepare them for making good spending decisions.
  • Use pretend paper money and coins and go shopping at home so your child can practice using and counting money to make purchases.
  • Point out costs of items in a store. Ask your child to identify which item costs more.
  • Help your child make choices about buying items. Let them make small purchases.

Watch these videos with your child to learn more money basics.

Ages 6 to 9

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Introduce an allowance, values and the concept of saving for future needs, as well as spending money wisely and using it to help others.
  • Provide plastic jars or envelopes for their allowance — one each for saving, spending and sharing.
  • Introduce the concept of setting short-term goals for purchases or activities.
  • Help your child become a savvy shopper. Show them how the same item may cost more or less at a different store. Have them identify an item they want to purchase and show them how to find the lowest cost on that item.
  • As a family, write down some short-term goals, such as saving for a family vacation or a new bike.
  • Host a family game night with board games that use money.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about earning and spending.

Ages 10-12

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Demonstrate how to create a shopping list, seek out sales and stay within budget.
  • Introduce the concept of banking.
  • Explain how online shopping uses real money, not play money.
  • Introduce the concept of budgeting and creating a spending plan.
  • Have your child help with the grocery shopping. Establish a budget, let them help with the list, and then make it a game to see whether your child can buy everything on the list within budget.
  • Consider opening a children’s savings account. Make regular deposits and withdrawals and discuss this process as a family. Together, review the account statement and discuss interest and fees.
  • Consider helping your child make an investment in a stock. With fractional share investing prevalent nowadays, you can invest $20 into whatever stock you want. This could pay off in 10 years.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about making purchases online.

Ages 13-15

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Discuss setting SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-bound) savings goals.
  • If they do not already have a savings or checking account, open an account at your bank or credit union.
  • Help them learn how to access their accounts online and teach them how to protect their identity.
  • Work with your child to set a financial goal, such as saving for a used car. Make sure the goal is SMART.
  • Go over a credit card or loan statement together. Show how much finance charges cost when you carry a balance from month to month. Use this online calculator to show the cost of credit.
  • Discuss your household spending plan. Explain the difference between needs and wants.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about getting a job.

Ages 16-19

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Help your teen develop financial independence through employment.
  • Discuss the cost of car ownership, including gas, maintenance and insurance.
  • Discuss the costs of college, what your family can realistically afford, and funding alternatives.
  • Identify ways to save money for college.
  • Help your teen get a safe job to save for future goals.
  • Show them how to use future value, auto loan and student loan calculators.
  • Create learning activities so they know how to:
    • ✓ Establish checking/savings accounts
    • ✓ Track account balances
    • ✓ Use ATM, debit and check cards, and write a check
    • ✓ Create and follow a budget
    • ✓ Determine financial goals
    • ✓ Establish and maintain good credit

Watch this video with your child to learn more about investing.

See these other resources to help teach your MilKid to be money smart:

Set yourself up for success and gain confidence by using these resources as a guide. As you Purple up this April to celebrate your military child, take time to teach them fundamentals to help secure a bright financial future.

Mandi Moynihan is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ professional who has been with MilSpouse Money Mission since its inception. She also served in the Army and is the spouse of a retired service member.

MilSpouse Money Mission® is a Department of Defense resource that offers FREE personal financial education specifically geared toward military spouses. There is a Money Ready guide for various stages of financial life, a MilLife Milestones section to help you through the big moments in your military journey, a blog, spouse videos, quizzes, calculators and more!

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Children playing in a field.

During Month of the Military Child, we pause to recognize the sacrifices and highlight the resiliency of military children. As we celebrate their unique experiences, take a moment to consider how their exposure to big life events, like a PCS, impacts their understanding of financial well-being. The money lessons we teach our children while they’re young — both in what we say and what we do – can set them up for financial success as adults.

Age-appropriate lessons can begin as early as three years old by introducing coins and paper money with basic counting. You can use a piggy bank to start teaching a seven-year old about saving, but a discussion about compound interest is way too advanced for this age. I’ve found that teaching kids about money works best in real-life situations, like when you’re grocery shopping or paying bills.

Check out the age-appropriate money lessons and activities below that you can use to boost your child’s money smarts, whether they are three or 19. I’ve used some of them to teach my own daughters, but you know your child best, so adapt activities to their personal interests and abilities. Starting the conversations sooner than later will help them appreciate financial decisions and build a solid foundation from which to build.

Ages 3 to 5

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Introduce coins, paper money and basic counting.
  • Talk about your job and how a job helps you earn money to pay for what you need.
  • Introduce the difference between needs and wants to prepare them for making good spending decisions.
  • Use pretend paper money and coins and go shopping at home so your child can practice using and counting money to make purchases.
  • Point out costs of items in a store. Ask your child to identify which item costs more.
  • Help your child make choices about buying items. Let them make small purchases.

Watch these videos with your child to learn more money basics.

Ages 6 to 9

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Introduce an allowance, values and the concept of saving for future needs, as well as spending money wisely and using it to help others.
  • Provide plastic jars or envelopes for their allowance — one each for saving, spending and sharing.
  • Introduce the concept of setting short-term goals for purchases or activities.
  • Help your child become a savvy shopper. Show them how the same item may cost more or less at a different store. Have them identify an item they want to purchase and show them how to find the lowest cost on that item.
  • As a family, write down some short-term goals, such as saving for a family vacation or a new bike.
  • Host a family game night with board games that use money.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about earning and spending.

Ages 10-12

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Demonstrate how to create a shopping list, seek out sales and stay within budget.
  • Introduce the concept of banking.
  • Explain how online shopping uses real money, not play money.
  • Introduce the concept of budgeting and creating a spending plan.
  • Have your child help with the grocery shopping. Establish a budget, let them help with the list, and then make it a game to see whether your child can buy everything on the list within budget.
  • Consider opening a children’s savings account. Make regular deposits and withdrawals and discuss this process as a family. Together, review the account statement and discuss interest and fees.
  • Consider helping your child make an investment in a stock. With fractional share investing prevalent nowadays, you can invest $20 into whatever stock you want. This could pay off in 10 years.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about making purchases online.

Ages 13-15

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Discuss setting SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-bound) savings goals.
  • If they do not already have a savings or checking account, open an account at your bank or credit union.
  • Help them learn how to access their accounts online and teach them how to protect their identity.
  • Work with your child to set a financial goal, such as saving for a used car. Make sure the goal is SMART.
  • Go over a credit card or loan statement together. Show how much finance charges cost when you carry a balance from month to month. Use this online calculator to show the cost of credit.
  • Discuss your household spending plan. Explain the difference between needs and wants.

Watch this video with your child to learn more about getting a job.

Ages 16-19

Money Lessons Learning Activities
  • Help your teen develop financial independence through employment.
  • Discuss the cost of car ownership, including gas, maintenance and insurance.
  • Discuss the costs of college, what your family can realistically afford, and funding alternatives.
  • Identify ways to save money for college.
  • Help your teen get a safe job to save for future goals.
  • Show them how to use future value, auto loan and student loan calculators.
  • Create learning activities so they know how to:
    • ✓ Establish checking/savings accounts
    • ✓ Track account balances
    • ✓ Use ATM, debit and check cards, and write a check
    • ✓ Create and follow a budget
    • ✓ Determine financial goals
    • ✓ Establish and maintain good credit

Watch this video with your child to learn more about investing.

See these other resources to help teach your MilKid to be money smart:

Set yourself up for success and gain confidence by using these resources as a guide. As you Purple up this April to celebrate your military child, take time to teach them fundamentals to help secure a bright financial future.

Mandi Moynihan is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ professional who has been with MilSpouse Money Mission since its inception. She also served in the Army and is the spouse of a retired service member.

MilSpouse Money Mission® is a Department of Defense resource that offers FREE personal financial education specifically geared toward military spouses. There is a Money Ready guide for various stages of financial life, a MilLife Milestones section to help you through the big moments in your military journey, a blog, spouse videos, quizzes, calculators and more!

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